*05.13.2003 - 12:07 a.m.*

Me: How do you know when someone is really in love with you?

Jon: when someone else is?

Jon: not yourself

Jon: (trying to understand fullest of question, BIG diff in answer)

Me: how do you know when someone else is in love with you?

Jon: Damn... I figured it was the harder question you were asking. Alrighty, lemmi think how to word things

Jon: When you feel as though this person considers you a part of them. When you look into their eyes, and you see nothing but caring, understanding, and a want to do anything to make you happy. Also, the action of them trying to do small things as well as large to be noticed by you. Takes interest in things that interest you, reguardless of personal feeling about action/event in que....

Jon: If they are comfortable, and think nothing of, talking about far into the future about such things as starting a family, living together, growing old together...

Jon: When every day, this person greets you with the same warm smile. And when things get tough, greets the situation with abnormal understanding for that person...

Jon: Its not only that they say they love you, its that you can feel caring, and the passion in their actions and words...

Jon: When in everything they do, they think how it would affect you. Even if the decision is not made in your favor, its that there was sizeable consideration given to your side...

Jon: When their actions speek for themselves. Love is an action.

Jon: Thats bout what I can gather from the top of my head

Me: thanks :-)

Jon: sure :)